is it this one?
Name James Tappenden
Gender Female
Christening Date 18 Apr 1809
Christening Date (Original) 18 APR 1809
Christening Place Westwell, Kent, England
Father's Name William Tappenden
Mother's Name Elizabeth Tappenden
or is there one at harbledown.
If the Westwell one is correct, then there could be a Stickard connection as one of the children is named Thomas Stickard Tappenden.